By David — 30 Apr 2026

The Pool: Why Strengthening and Exercise Aren’t Helping Your Pain

The Right Thing at the Wrong Time

If you’ve been prescribed core work, resistance training, or progressive loading and it’s not making things better or it’s making things worse the advice itself may not be wrong. The timing almost certainly is — and the deeper reason has to do with why weakness and tightness aren't actually causing your pain in the first place.

Above the Water, Below the Water

Imagine you’re in a pool. When you’re above the surface, you can breathe. When you’re below the surface, you can’t. That’s straightforward. You know when you’re under because you can feel the water, you can see it, you have a sense of orientation. Nobody would try to take a deep breath while submerged. That would be dangerous and obviously wrong.

Now take away the orientation.

Imagine you have no way to tell whether you’re above the water or below it. You’ve lost the ability to sense where the surface is. All you know is that you’re struggling. You’re running low on oxygen. Something feels wrong, and it’s getting worse.

So you go to a professional. And they assess the situation and say, “Your problem is that you don’t have enough air in your lungs. What we need to do is practice deep breathing, build up your lung capacity so you can take in more oxygen. We should also work on breath-holding so you can go longer between breaths.”

That advice isn’t wrong. Better lung capacity is a real, useful thing. Being able to hold your breath longer would genuinely help. These are legitimate capabilities that would make you more resilient.

But you’re underwater.

You can’t practice deep breathing underwater. You can’t even take a single breath underwater. It doesn’t matter how good the breathing program is. It doesn’t matter how credentialed the professional is. The intervention is correct in principle and impossible in practice, because it doesn’t match where you actually are.

The Threshold Is Binary

Here’s the part that matters most. The waterline isn’t a gradient. It’s a hard line.

If both nostrils and your mouth are one millimeter below the surface, you cannot breathe. Not partially. Not with difficulty. You cannot breathe at all. It doesn’t matter that you’re almost at the surface. It doesn’t matter that you’re closer than you were five minutes ago. Close doesn’t count.

To take even one breath, you need at least one nostril above the waterline. That’s the minimum. That’s the threshold. Everything, every intervention, every training program, every capacity-building exercise, depends on getting to that point first.

The Sequence Problem

This is the mistake that gets made over and over. Someone is in pain. They can barely move. Their body is in a protective state: guarding, inflamed, sensitized. They go to a provider, and the provider prescribes strengthening. Core work. Resistance exercises. Progressive loading.

All of which are real, evidence-based, genuinely useful interventions. For someone who’s above the waterline.

When you’re in an acute or sub-acute episode, an episode when the inflammatory cascade has expanded the area of sensitivity, when your body is actively guarding, when basic movement is unreliable, you are below the surface. The "active injury" generating that cascade is often not the tissue you think is injured and identifying the actual driver is what determines whether the next intervention helps or hurts. Prescribing strengthening in that state is prescribing deep breathing to someone who’s underwater. The intervention isn’t wrong. The timing is wrong. And wrong timing makes a correct intervention useless at best and harmful at worst.

You wouldn’t practice holding your breath for longer and longer periods while you’re drowning. You’d get to the surface first.

Getting to the Surface

The first priority, the only priority when you’re below the line, is getting above it. That means calming the system down. Reducing the inflammatory response. Getting to where basic, normal activities are tolerable and predictable. Getting to where you can move without your body responding as though it’s under threat.

That’s not strengthening. That’s not stretching. That’s not progressive loading. Those are all above-the-waterline activities. They have a place - a real, important place - but the place is later.

Once you can breathe, once your body is no longer in a reactive, protective state, then you can start building capacity. Then you can strengthen. Then you can train endurance, build resilience, expand what your body can handle. This is also where the question becomes whether your body's repair systems can actually keep up with the demands you're placing on them. You can practice holding your breath for longer periods so that next time you dip below the surface, you can manage it better and get back up faster.

But the order matters. Surface first. Capacity second. And the reason most people feel stuck isn’t that they haven’t tried hard enough or that they need a better strengthening program. It’s that they’ve been prescribed above-the-waterline solutions while they’re still below the waterline, and nobody told them the difference, because nobody helped them figure out where they actually were.

That’s the orientation problem. Not knowing whether you’re above or below the surface. Not having a way to tell. And without that awareness, every intervention feels like it should work, and none of them do.

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